Use Your Tongue Wisely
Another common characteristic of "bad "kissing is using way too much tongue.
When you start kissing someone, keep the tongue out of it until
things start to heat up. Focus more on all the different ways you can
kiss with just your lips — keeping your mouth closed, opening it
slightly, intertwining your lips with your partners’, pouting your lips,
and so on.
When adding the tongue, be gentle. Your tongue is an
incredibly strong muscle, so you need to be careful not to go overboard, gently touching your tongue to your partner’s at first.
Imagine that your tongues are softly caressing each other. Don’t jab at
your partner with your tongue, and don’t put too much of your tongue
into their mouth. Just gentle caresses.
If you feel unsure about how to use your tongue,
try practicing on the back of your hand again. Give your hand a firm
jab with your tongue, just so you can see how strong your tongue is.
Then play away with different ways of moving your tongue across your
skin. I know it will feel silly to “practice” on your hand, but it
really is an easy way to get a sense of how things feel!
Get Your Whole Body Involved
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